If you wish, we can meet for a free and personal get-to-know meeting of approx. 45 minutes, e.g. in a café or bar.

These are possible in one of my home bases, see FAQ “Where to book Sascha without additional travel costs”.

If you then spontaneously decide to spend time with me, we can also start our meeting directly afterwards.

The time before remains “booking-free” in any case.

Instead of a face-to-face meeting, we can also arrange an online meeting or video call via WhatsApp, Telegram or we just write for example.

First of all, I appreciate it very much that you send me an enquiry without obligation via the booking form or the contact channel you have chosen on my site.

In our society, it has mostly not yet arrived in people’s minds that a woman simply “books” a man.

Although many talk about emancipation and equality and, conversely, it is normal for men – more often than many think – to spend time with an escort lady.

Before your thoughts might go further rounds, here is the procedure:

After your first contact, I will get back to you via the contact channel you have chosen. You can send me an anonymous or not anonymous message via the contact form. Or contact me directly by phone. You can also send me a message via WhatsApp, e-mail, SMS, Telegram or chat, whichever way suits you best.

You can tell me your questions, wishes or ideas in the booking request – if you have already thought about them.

Otherwise I will write to you how we can start a first date in a relaxed way.

If you would like to keep a meeting open or are unsure and would like to hear my voice in advance, you can also find this out in a phone call. We can then discuss everything else on the phone.

If you only want to write before a possible date, that is also perfectly fine.

Maybe you already know where you feel most comfortable for a first date.

For example, you can start in a restaurant with dinner together, in a nice, appealing bar for a drink, in a hotel bar, in a hotel room or at your home.

The first named locations are more likely to offer the possibility of an open-ended evening.

Every person is individual, special, with their own personality.

That’s why I can never say exactly how a meeting will develop.

But I can assure you that I will meet you with openness, respect and joy, even if you may not believe this because of your experiences or your self-perception in contact with others.

I will create a good atmosphere so that you feel comfortable and respond to what is probably an unusual situation for you with thought and humour, so that it feels more relaxed for both of us.

Your wishes and needs are the focus, even if they may change spontaneously.

Are you thinking about the duration of the date? Depending on your imagination of the time together, the meeting, I will be happy to give you my estimation.

If you spontaneously decide to extend our meeting, I will gladly take more time for you.

You are welcome to express your outfit wishes.

For example, casual, smart casual, business casual, elegant for festive occasions, sporty, rocky or whatever.

You are also welcome to tell me your special or unusual outfit preferences in advance. Also in my private live I like to change my style of dress for different occasions.

If you do not specify any clothing preferences, I will appear casual, smart casual or business casual.

As an escort, I am not only responsible but also obliged to take care of safe sex and contraception.

I also guarantee my health through regular STI tests (Sexually Transmitted Infections tests) and will gladly provide you with an up-to-date test result upon request.

I carry out these tests regularly and professionally with an specialist doctor, no self-tests!

You can send me an unspecified request via the booking form and insert “flexible” or “later” in the desired date.

We will write or phone later, as it fits best for you.

I am happy if you also ask for the future, then I can organize it in advance.

My homebase is Northern Germany. You can book me e.g. in the greater area of Hamburg, Bremen, Hannover without additional travel costs.

The same applies to Berlin and Mallorca, where I am more often.

There is a lot of talk about equality and emancipation of women. But to book an escort as a woman is then still not socially acceptable in many minds, while conversely many men take that out and it is accepted.

I would like to encourage you as a woman to care more for YOU again.

Attention, touch, sensuality, tenderness, physicality are very important for us as humans, our well-being, our liveliness, our joy of life, our own body experience, for our ability to touch.

If we leave this out of our lives, be it because we don’t get it anymore in our long-term, committed relationship, we have been disappointed or hurt, we haven’t always had good experiences with men or for whatever reason – we leave out a very important part of ourselves.

This does not mean that you need to book a companion. However, it gives you just this discreet and protected framework for your wishes, needs and fantasies.

There are also other ways. Talk to me about that as well. Either way, I’m looking forward to seeing you on your way and taking care of yourself again!

In addition to my own website, I am represented on a very sophisticated German-language escort portal. This has a very high standard of discretion, anonymity and professionalism.

The admission criteria there are very strict. Several levels must be passed through, so that only very few men manage to be accepted there.

In case of disregard for the attentive and respectful interaction, they are immediately excluded from the portal.

There are also independent reviews from ladies who have spent time with me.

Upon request, I will gladly give you more information and references.

Besides my activity as an male escort I am more broadly positioned:

I write short stories on the topic of “New Masculinity” – real stories from everyday encounters between women and men, in which I take men for a ride humorously or sometimes more seriously.

You can find a selection of these stories here:

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These questions are quite often in the mind of a woman.

For men, too, by the way.

And quite honestly: At the beginning of my work as an escort, I also wondered what it would do to me to meet a woman who perhaps does not quite correspond to my ideal image or we do not get into the flow of conversation.

These doubts have not been confirmed with me and I have experienced that I am always happy to discover what is special and stimulating about a woman.

I am fascinated by so many aspects of people that I am always happy to be inspired.

This is a very exciting question.

From our own experience, we know that we can feel very attracted to certain people spontaneously. Be it in personal conversations, through photos, profiles and mutual messages on dating sites, videos and interviews in public.

Our desires, our wishes, our feelings, what we find attractive in the other person, the feeling of connection, motivates us to want to get to know this person.

An unknown one is nothing more than an undiscovered and you have it in your hands to become the explorer of the other and more of yourself.

At the same time we all have our own beliefs.

Imprinting, socialization, society, religion and experiences can lead us to doubt or reject what we actually intuitively feel, what we want to pursue, what we want to give a chance.

That would be a pity.

I would like to encourage you to follow your first impulses, to give your joy of discovery, your play instinct, your wishes, needs and your fantasies a chance.

If you read these lines and they appeal to you in some way, you will already feel not quite unknown to me.

If you click on request above or write me e.g. by Whatsapp, you give yourself the chance to go at least one step.

I assure you that I meet your request appreciatively, no matter what your motivation is.

When we then write or talk on the phone, we can tune in to each other. You know this from phone calls or writing with unknown people, e.g. in your job context.

Your and my empathic skills will help us to reduce nervousness and uncertainty.

By the time we meet, we will have come a long way and will no longer be strangers.

And whether you can let yourself fall then or not:

You can only let yourself fall if you feel hold – in this case by me.

You can only make this experience in the real encounter. No head cinema before, no beliefs or doubts take this decision from you.

It always remains your choice while we meet.

And: You don’t have to worry about me. If you don’t feel it, you spontaneously change your mind during the meeting – I’m ok with it.

Maybe you’ve had other experiences with men for whom it wasn’t okay and who react strangely when things don’t go according to their “plan”.

There should be no plan for a date. Every date is too unique for that.

Sometimes it works out quite spontaneously within a few days. If you send me 2-3 date options, it is usually easier for me to plan. Just enter your preferred dates in the form under “Booking Request” on my website or send me a message using my contact details.

If you plan a booking for a longer period of time, e.g. 3-4 weeks in advance, it is even easier for us to find a common date.

I think the question comes more from: Will we even get along? Will we have chemistry? What if we don’t?

Imagine you’re going out for shopping:

You see a great dress in the shop window, beautiful colours, perfectly cut.

You make a beeline for the entrance, with a flourish your hands grab the slim, beautiful straps on the drawer, you unhook the hanger. In the cabin you slip it over your body in anticipation. This fine fabric – how beautiful, how graceful it feels against your skin. The colours, well, a little bit to powerful, probably because of the glaring spotlight in the cabin. The fit – a little bulky here and there, but it looks good from the front.
Bought!

At home in front of your own mirror in a different light you realise: Well – that was nothing. And anyway, to what occasion should I actually wear this?

You’ve probably had some strange experiences with men. Among other things, that they didn’t turn out to be what they pretended on the first date or how you painted a picture in your mind after the great written contact.

In my opinion, men then lack – at least in these moments – a bit of access to themselves to be able to build empathy and sensitivity and probably also naturalness and charisma.

I can assure you that it’s different for me. Not as a means to an end, but because it is a part of me and I have a lot of fun and joy in genuine togetherness. If that is given, the humour and the lightness between us comes by itself.

Again, if you like, we can write or phone beforehand without obligation. Voice and sound can be important to get in the mood and to get to know each other a little.

Even if it doesn’t come to a booking. That is not important to me. What is important is whether there is sympathy between us and we can build up an atmosphere. I like to invest time in that.

You brought back the apparently beautiful dress.

We’ll give it a try and see if you want to exchange me again.

You can hand over my fee in cash in an envelope at the beginning or discreetly place it on the table.

If we have kept the duration of the booking open, you are welcome to hand over the payment to me at the end of the meeting.

Travel expenses within my home base are not charged.

Outside my homebase, up to 30 km are included in the price. Travel expenses are charged at 50 cents per km. Only the arrival way is charged, not the way back.

In case of train or plane tickets, the costs for the cheap tickets will be charged by me. Of course, I will discuss this transparently with you before the meeting.

If you have to cancel our meeting for private or business reasons, please let me know 4 days before the planned meeting. But don’t worry: If something unforeseen should come up, you can make up our meeting within 5 weeks without cancellation costs.

Otherwise, there will be a cancellation fee of 50% of the agreed fee.

You are welcome to book a hotel of your choice directly.

However, if you do not wish to do this independently for reasons of discretion, I will be happy to reserve the hotel room in my name.

First of all:
It’s good that our society is gradually moving towards more openness and acceptance when it comes to gender identity and sexuality.
Everyone should feel comfortable with themselves and their body and I have great understanding and respect for people who try to live or change their gender identity as they feel it from within. The same goes for sexuality, whether heterosexual, homosexual or whatever.

I myself am heterosexual. You can book me as a woman with heterosexual or bisexual inclinations, as a couple in whatever constellation, if the woman is to be the focus.

Also as a transsexual and intersexual, if you feel like a woman and also live and radiate this outwardly.

So-called duo bookings are possible. My fee does not change as a result. Only the fee of the other escort is added. If you are thinking about this, I will be happy to recommend another male or female escort who is very trustworthy and experienced in dealing with this situation.

Yes, my fee remains the same.